When someone  near and dear to a childs heart passes, it is essential  that fully processing the grief be facilitated. To avoid recurring  bouts of grief that feel like the loved on is being lost ultiple times.For 16 years. I have  buried my head in y maternal grandmother  grave.the Wasband blocked my grieving and  itbecame  an annual  lost  on her birth  and  whenever  I missed her  voice saying my name.

Now I have  an a mazing psychologist. Tht helped m trace my clinging to  grief back to the llod tof my cousin  Angie  who passed away  when I was  a tween. My parents  didn’t  even realize  ho wmuch she meant to me  till after a traumatic  brain injury.  I began insisting  about my version of the  times I  remembered  with her.I  had to speak to  various  family members  to confirm that my thoughts were valid